This is gonna be a long ass entry (it’s been awhile since I’ve the mood to type these!) about this new (or old?!) friend of mine… I’ll just call him B in my future blog entries. :P
So, where do I start?
Let’s see. I was having fever and on MC on 18th Aug, when I was browsing a local forum out of boredom. I was browsing through and poking my head into random threads, when I saw someone posted a photo of a lovely looking cup of coffee. So, out of curiousity (and the way he wrote about the café really sounds as if the coffee and desserts are REALLY good), I PM-ed him and asked for the location of the café. So one thing led to another, and we started to chat a little in PMs.
First impression – he’s a nice guy. I’ve seen some of his posts in the forum before and he struck me as a rather wise person, with mild temperament. I always had the feeling that he was older than me lol! After a bit of chatting, we both found out that we have eye appointments at SNEC, and at the very same clinic C too! What a coincidence! So apart from loving artisan coffee, we go to the same eye clinic as well. Then he found out that I actually play D3, which he ALSO plays as well. So, wow, one more topic to talk about. (But he’s a damn hardcore player, I’m not. :x)
At one point when we were chatting in D3, I found out that… I actually knew him long time ago, during the CS days. D: I knew his then-CS nick, and I’ve seen him before. He doesn’t remember me though, which I’m not surprised, as I was way too low profile back then. But wow, just that knowledge alone opened us up even further lol. We were talking about old mutual friends, the old days of CS, etc…
Then we arranged a meet up as we’ve agreed to share a box of mooncakes among ourselves, and at the same time he’d bring me to the café he introduced to me. It was rather nervous to meet someone for the first time (I mean, it really had been too long since I last saw him – he was still a young boy back then!), yet kind of interesting and exciting at the same time because he’s someone I know (or used to know). He told me he’s fat (like, used to be 190 kg!) but from his FB I can see his weight has already dropped down to 99kg (and that’s an awesome achievement, I’d say!), and he does powerlifting and all that. And he kept telling me he looks old. So okaaayyyyyy, I painted a picture of a buffed, big-sized, bald (he sent me a pic of his shaved head D: ), bespectacled, old looking dude in my mind.
I remembered as I exit Orchard station, I was still asking him on Whatsapp if he had reached. I didn’t get to see his reply when I looked around the station to see if I can see anyone resembling him. Well, I can’t really explain it but the moment my eyes land on him, I knew it’s him LOL. And he’s NOT the way I imagined him to be. So don’t ask me why I know it’s him, I just do. (Woman’s instinct, probably?!)
All right, so let’s see.
He’s buffed – Yup that’s right.
He’s big sized – Yup that too.
He’s bald – Nope. His head ain’t as shiny as the pic he sent me lol.
He’s bespectacled – Yup.
He’s old looking – like hell he was =_= He was youthful looking, especially when he smiled or grinned. Goodness, which part is uncle sia?! =___=
I’d say the first 15minutes was a little awkward… like both of us still trying to adjust to each other. But after that, the conversation started flowing and… everything was great! He was absolutely charming and honestly, I haven’t been laughing so much since god knows when. He had me laughing throughout lunch, and my jaws seriously ached from laughing so much during the two hours we were at the café he recommended. He was so funny! In some ways, he reminded me Daniel, the only friend I had back then in poly. Daniel played CS as well, was a chao camper too, was “round” in size too, loves to imitate people too, loves to irritate people too… lol!
I don’t know. In some ways it was like so weird and uncanny, the way we got to know each other (again) and how quickly we’ve became buddies. But yet it’s quite heartwarming to know I’ve actually got a new (or should I say old? Damn this is awkward lol) friend, one whom I barely knew for a month but yet we have become really fast friends. Hopefully this new friendship can last! Like, really last. :)
And I’m also hoping something positive would happen between him and the girl who’s been with him for so many years as well. He really, really deserves some happiness in his life after all that shit that happened to him when he was young.
Anyway here are some pics of the café which he brought me to. What can I say? Awesome latte (definitely one of the best I’ve ever drank), sinful desserts and lovely ambience (or maybe it’s due to the company I had! XD). The Portland cold brew was his, of which he let me sipped a little. It was surprisingly smooth, with only a slight tinge of sourish and bitter taste. I was so intrigued that I took a second sip. It’s really good! I’m tempted to give it a try the next time I visit this café. Thanks B, for your recommendation!









