To TI and Back!

TI之旅圆满结束。

First solo trip. First time to China.

A quick recap here – I might consider to write an entry in my travel blog. We’ll see.

Day 1

Flew into Shanghai. 浩宇 “Stay”, who specifically flew in to Shanghai from Xi’An just to meet me, came over to Pudong airport to 接机… It was nice to meet him in person, after chatting online for so long. There’s no awkwardness – he’s as 健谈 as he was online, which is good because I’m not that great at chit chatting lol.

We first went over to his hotel where I passed him the souvenirs I got for him, and he passed me the Lumix camera I bought, as well as the gifts that he and the other girls prepared for me. I dumped them into my luggage, and off we went from his hotel to my hotel, where I checked in, got my luggage up to my room, got the camera out of the box and chuck it into my day bag and went down to the lobby where Stay was waiting and headed to Taikoo Li Qiantan, a huge mall which is pretty near my hotel.

We discussed rather long when deciding on dinner, and in the end he brought me to a vegetarian restaurant, which looked upscale but the price was extremely reasonable (when converting the bill to SGD, that is). Food is really good – nothing “Shanghai-sh” but just real good food.

He took some photos with my Lumix and was pleasantly surprised by how good it is, and also taught me how to use manual settings to bring different “feel” to the photos.

Day 2

We went to 百联ZX创趣场 and strolled for the whole 6 storeys – going into almost each and every of the anime merchandise store. I almost bought a Frieren blind box, but stopped myself at the end lol. He then took me to an old reputable Shanghai restaurant for 蟹黄汤包… and everything 蟹黄-related. It’s quite nice! And their 生煎包 was good too! It was the first time I tried 生煎包, now kinda regret why I hadn’t try it previously lol.

We then headed to one of the art galleries for the glass exhibition, where he again taught me on using my camera. I experimented quite a bit, but unfortunately still couldn’t be proficient at shooting nice pics LOL. We then went over to The Bund and strolled a little, before taking the ferry to go across the river and headed for 云朵书院, which needed reservation in advance to go up, and it was just unfortunate that my timing clashed with their summer holidays, and there’s just HORDES of families queueing to buy the cheapest drink at the shop’s cafe to get a chance to get into the cafe where one can take photos of the Shanghai Bund view. We gave up on it, and just looked around the bookstore for a while before heading back down, where we got lunch at their Food Republic food court, and got ourselves iced (milk) tea from Chagee before taking the ferry back, just in time for nighttime skyline over at The Bund.

We both started using our cameras to take the dusk view of Shanghai skyline, with Stay again guiding me on how to manipulate the manual settings on my camera to achieve better effects. It was then the Bund started to be quite crowded, and the second hand smoke started to become more frequent. It didn’t help that it was uncomfortably warm and sweaty, and I found my body temperature to be quite high and it didn’t feel like it’s gonna drop soon. I felt something was amiss and looked at my watch – my heart rate is at 140bps, even though we were just casually strolling. And it was already evening – the sky had turned dark. Never did I thought that I would suffer from mild heatstroke at night, but Stay and I decided that it was heatstroke after all. My cheeks were unusually red and my body temperature just wouldn’t drop, as with my heart rate. We called for a cab instead of trying to take the metro back (the metro station was jam packed with people too) while I desperately drank more water. Thankfully he did managed to get one on his first try, and my heart rate and body temperature dropped after 20 minutes sitting in the extremely cooling cab. It was a pretty scary ordeal, but I’m glad it didn’t become worse at the end of the day and all ended well.

Day 3

Stay checked out of his hotel and we first went over to the Oriental Sports Stadium (where TI is being held) to take photo of the stadium, which already has a QOP statue there. The small “ponds” in front of the stadium was filled with in-game runes too – very nice! We then went over again to Taikoo Li for a quick lunch at Shake Shack, then we went searching for Crystal Maiden’s and Drow Ranger’s statue and took some pictures. Stay then brought me over to a famous 网红打卡点 at 武康街… ummmmm OK, I took some photos and yeah, we strolled along the street and taking photos while chatting away. Then we figured the heat and crowd was enough, so we headed back to Taikoo Li and sat at Kurasu (yes there’s one there!), drinking coffee and matcha until it’s about time for him to leave. He then headed back to his hotel to grab his luggage to take the high speed rail to Changsha to meet his other friend, while I headed back to hotel to rest for a bit, before heading back to the stadium to take photos of the venue at night when the lighting is up. So nice! But then I missed out visiting Tsutaya bookstore though… oh well.

Day 4 – 7

TI all the way! Literally. I only left the venue when I had to go for meals. And for the first 3 days I didn’t stay all the way to the end – my energy really couldn’t keep up with it and I need my sleep lol. But this TI was organized really, really well. Every attendee gets a goodie bag everyday, with random items in the bag (much like a blind box); ticketed entry tied to government IDs are very well carried out; stage decoration was awesome; surround sound throughout the stadium (so immersive!!); decent kiosk food with decent price (at least from my POV); allows any kind of beverage to be brought in (as long as it’s not in mineral water bottles – I can even bring in Manner coffee!); light stick given everyday (I only bring home two)… there’s really no complaints at all at this TI.

Day 8

Booked an airport transfer via Trip.com and reached the airport comfortably. I have to say… it’s really quite cheap to arrange for airport transfer in China. Although I’m sure booking via Didi myself would be a lot more cheaper, but I’m perfectly fine with the fees that Trip charged, so all’s good. Got through the customs in a breeze, didn’t queue that long to go through the security checks. Shanghai Pudong airport managed these queues quite well. Had a decent lunch at one of the eateries in transit area, bought some Shanghai snacks from the souvenir shops, and … yup the flight went smoothly and landed back in Singapore safely at around 8+pm.

Overall, TI was great, meeting Stay was nice, Shanghai’s weather was terrible, Manner coffee was oh-so-delectable.

Not sure if I’d update my travel journal (I’m so lazy now), but well, in any case if I didn’t, at least I’ve wrote something here. :D

10 days to Shanghai!

First solo trip to China… this is quite surreal. I always thought my very first true solo trip will be to Japan, since I’m already so familiar with that country.

Who would have thought – my first true solo trip is actually to China.

A country which, 20 years ago, I vehemently refused to even consider travelling to.

Throughout the years, I put aside my prejudice, willingly reach out online to get to know more Chinese nationals, and I came to realise they are not all bad. Well mannered people are everywhere, even in China. Just that China is just way too huge, with a population way too large, that even a 10% of bad/ill mannered people would mean a whole lot when it comes to actual figures.

That doesn’t mean I had no qualms visiting the country. I’ve already still mentally prepared to encounter smokers at every possible corner. Dirty toilet bowls even in malls. Queue cutting people wherever I go.

I’m not saying I’d definitely encounter these incidents. I’m just mentally preparing myself so that I can control my temper if and when these really happen. It’s within my expectations anyway. If all these did not happen to me on the trip, then yay, the trip would be all the more enjoyable.

The weather is another point to lament. Typhoons are coming and going. I can only pray typhoons won’t come when I’m about to fly, when I’m there, or when I’m flying back home. I’m hoping the weather won’t be as hot as I’m mentally preparing myself it being.

Covid is another worrying concern. Covid is sprouting everywhere, including here in Singapore and there in China. Of course I’d be wearing a mask in enclosed crowded area (especially in the stadium), I’m just hoping I won’t catch it when I have my mask down (for eg. when dining).

And… I haven’t pack my luggage! Guess I’ll bring out my luggage this Sunday and start packing. I’ll be heading to Jason’s salon for hair dyeing and treatment on Saturday… which is the second day of my period too. Sigh I feel apprehensive just about this… because I need to change pad every 2 hours. Damn…

First post in 2025

Well.

Well, well, well.

First post in 2025, after Q1 is almost over, lol.

Ummmm, quite a lot of stuff happened.

First, I was diagnosed with extremely severe iron deficiency in end-Dec 2024. But hey, after 3 months of intaking Maltofer (2x100mg tablets a day), my iron and haemoglobin level shot back up to normal and GP told me to stop taking the supplements. I’m due for another blood test in 5 months’ time, so hopefully all’s still well by then.

I initially had created a travel journal specially for my Japan trips, but I realised it was very quickly busting my sanity-asylum bandwidth. So I migrated all of them into Google Docs, and deleted the entire sub-domain. Will I create another one under a new domain/WordPress site hosted somewhere else? Maybe… we’ll see how it goes. I’m also not a fan of inviting people to view that trip journal since it shares the same domain name as my blog, which I deemed to be very personal… hence that’s another factor why I removed the site.

Work-wise, I’m starting to feel a little detached… there’s some restructuring going on and honestly I’m not feeling too good about all that. But I’m happy that someone will be taking the lead pertaining to the changes for most part – at least I don’t need to feel too anxious about all the upcoming changes.

Still thinking about getting a separate trip journal up. Hmmm…

Chasing Miles

It’s odd that I’m only starting to really chase miles.

I’ve had DBS Altitude and Citi Premier Miles cards for awhile now, but because the accumulated points don’t have any expiry, I simply just spend and forget about it. After using the cards for like more than 5 years, I’ve got about 100K of miles in my DBS Altitude and about 150K miles in my Citi PM.

And I’ve just applied for the Krisflyer UOB Mastercard – I mean, considering I’m solely flying SQ nowadays, that 3mpd is simply too good to pass on. I’m also using Kris+ to pay wherever possible…

Why only now though, to be chasing miles? Maybe because I finally have enough miles to redeem business class flights, and I could finally have the flexibility in my travel dates (since I can travel on my own now without waiting for anyone to confirm their dates). I can finally go for cards with points expiry, because I can get the points transferred to Krisflyer miles and topping them up with my DBS/Citibank miles (without expiry) for business class flights redemption, at any time.

*rubs hands in anticipation*

World of miles, here I come! :D

后续

今早发了blog post后,又去新航网站看了一圈,发现今天机票便宜了?少过1K啊!那我就不等ZipAir了,赶紧在新航订了票了,哈哈!然后又马上去Singlife买了旅游保险(就冲着他家的”Trip Cancellation for Any Reason”的clause,嘿嘿)…

机酒搞定!就等水戸那儿的酒店了~

啊啊啊啊,兴奋呀~

日本之旅

还有100天!就能回到日本了!虽然还有3个月… 好煎熬啊!

这几天打开了一年前做好的攻略,现在正好可以开始细节化整个行程了。我最喜欢的环节!哈哈哈哈~!

还有!就是!

我妈!竟然!真的真的!不反对我一个人去日本了!!!!!!!!!

之前我小心翼翼的提起的时候,她没说OK但也没像以前那样直接反对。我当时就觉得,欸,有戏?!

结果那晚我姐姐她们一家都在的时候,我又再提一次,我妈直接说“去吧去吧,我不管你了。“

啊啊啊啊啊啊啊!虽然感觉有一点点内疚(我妈其实不是控制欲强,只是真的不放心我一个人出国,所以她终于肯让步,一定是花了很多时间说服自己让我做我想做的事),但我还是太开心了!我好感动啊,一直在饭桌上跟她说谢谢,哈哈!

本来原计划是想着5月去看绣球花,但发现5月中旬也不是绣球花盛开的季节。看了很多报道,感觉春季的花很多都在4月中旬盛开啊…

所以最终决定了,就4月中旬去吧!搞不好可能还能看到一点樱花呢!这次的目标:看樱花,紫藤花,绣球花!所以我的行程大多数都是去花园,哈哈哈哈!

行程是定了,酒店也都定了(除了水戸的住宿还没订,因为JR METS没那么早开放reservations),就差个机票。新航看着有点贵啊… 我在考虑这次可能就等ZipAir吧。飞去东京的时候就坐商务舱(能平躺睡觉),回的时候经济舱就行了。希望机票快点release吧~!

然后呢,就是我明年11月的行程啦!虽然跟叶伟说好了,但…. 怎么说呢… 心里有点没底。就觉得他好像也没这么想跟我一起去吧…

也许… 我还是准备一个B计划吧,他如果真不想跟我去了,那我就自己去其他地方吧…

Tom Bihn Bixi

So… Tom Bihn finally announced their new travel bag for the season – the Bixi 32L Travel Backpack.

I looked through the FAQ, watched the packing video…

Well…

Not exactly a huge fan. As a travel backpack, my Techonaut is fantastic (except for the lack of loadlifters). In fact, I very much appreciate the fact that the water bottle pocket on my Techonaut is zippered, instead of being exposed to weather elements like on the Bixi. In it’s zipped pocket, at least I don’t need to worry about it falling out if I happen to carry the bag like a briefcase. Yes it might take up a little internal space, but that’s something I can live with.

Bixi has the new admin panel, which is very commonly seen among big travel backpacks nowadays by other brands. I’m not a huge fan when it comes to that sort of organizational panel – it’s something that I can live without. I don’t need that much organization when I’m moving about – I’ll usually either have my Small Cafe Bag or my Aer Go Pack 2 with me at the same time too. Small/daily EDC items can go in there.

So… yup. Gonna give this Bixi a miss. I really wish TB will come up with a travel bag with load lifters though. Otherwise, I might have to look elsewhere once I really do start to do one-bag travel in the future.

JPY All Time Low!

Should I go change even more JPY later during lunch? I have lots sitting at home already though…

Finally took some time off my busy hours in office to book remm Kobe – and yes! Got the rooms! A tad more expensive than Brenza hotel which I had initially booked, but really I’d pay just that little extra more for the convenience. I really love staying in hotels that’s right in the train stations – you’d understand why if you have stayed in one before. After a long day of walking it really felt super exhausting to have to continue walking or taking a short bus from the major train station back to your accommodation. The thought that’d pop into your head will be “Oh gawd why did I book the hotel so far from the station..” While if you stay at the hotel right in the major train station itself, it takes you barely a couple of minutes after getting out of the train to be back in your hotel room. On the day of check-out, you also don’t need to worry about carrying heavy backpacks or dragging luggage while crossing roads and don’t need to worry about inclement weather, because you are IN the station itself – you can just linger around and saunter through the station fare gates when it’s time to board the train.

I really enjoy staying in hotels situated right in train stations so much, that even though I’d encountered some pretty fierce supernatural stuff in Via Inn Kanazawa, I don’t mind staying there again whenever I’m in Kanazawa. LOL!

Next up – to set reminders on phone to purchase the regional rail pass and to book the necessary train reservations, as well as booking the Kobe steak lunch.

162 days to go!

Um…

So I suddenly have this thought this morning to build a new Japan mini-site. The current travel journal site will likely then be for all non-Japan overseas trips, while I collate all the Japan trips, tips, recommendations etc into the new mini Japan travel info site.

I don’t intend to bring traffic to the site though, so I haven’t fully convince myself why I would want to do this yet… since it’ll be a chore for me to migrate all my Japan posts and photos over (of course, I could just link them back to the original posts at my travel journal site if I’m lazy).

It also doesn’t deal with my laziness that’s causing me to procrastinate writing down my travel journals.

Heck, my Nov-2023 trip is still not written, not to mention the Feb-2024 trip. Though I really don’t have much to say about those two trips since I re-visited many places in them.

Anyway, I have a couple of grand ideas… like putting up a Japan map and stick pins on to the places I’ve been to, listing all the places that I’ve eaten at each spot/prefecture/region (with my recommendations included), etc… one thing’s for sure though – I won’t be sharing my itineraries online.

This will give me something to do on weekends, apart from just playing games and watching documentaries… but I’m also a little apprehensive about starting something which I’m not sure if I’ll even finish.

Let me think about it a little more…

Status Quo

So end up it’ll still be Bruno going with me for the Dec Japan trip.

Air tickets bought, hotels booked, itinerary all done up.

But this will be the last time I’m travelling with him.

I’m really more keen on heading to Japan myself, but my mom still refused to let me travel on my own. Due to the recent earthquakes happening in Japan and in Taiwan, she has even been trying to dissuade me from heading to Japan – we almost had a large quarrel last evening regarding this.

I’m really tired of justifying to everyone why I’m insisting on heading to Japan despite knowing the risk of the Nankai mega quake happening soon. I only have one thing to say: I’d rather die without regrets than to live with regrets. It doesn’t matter if you don’t feel the same way, but please don’t impose your ideals on me. I’m not gonna change my mind about this. I will suspend my trips when the probability of the quake happening within the next 3 years is more than 50%, and it’s not anywhere near this probability yet.

Now, about work…

Liwen and Angie have both been axed from the company. Yup. You read that right… Axed. Terminated. Not even retrenched… but terminated. Gosh. I remembered I was just sitting there, stunned, when Karen broke the news to me in the meeting room. First thought that came to me is, why? I mean, I know my CFO didn’t like them, I know my two FMs had been quite stubborn and didn’t grabbed the chances to shine in front of the CFO when they should, yes I know my CFO had long felt they were not performing to his expectations, but I honestly didn’t expect a termination. It’s so… out of the blue. The rest of the VAs were then being asked to come into the meeting room and well…. they took the news quite hard. All 3 of them were in shock for a few seconds, before they broke down and cried. They finished that packet of pocket tissue which I had on me, and I had to go grab a box of tissues in for them. I’m not surprised with their reaction, even though I don’t see why is there a need to cry.

I mean, I know they were very close with LW and AZ, but we can always ask them out for dinner to catch up if there’s a need to. But then again… I guess they relied on both of them a lot to tank for us. I relied a whole lot on LW too – all the reports that I used for analysis were generated by her. Without her around, I wouldn’t be as efficient as I was for the past two years. Sure, work goes on, I’m very sure I could still meet deadlines and generate reports myself for analysis (though her reports were definitely way better in terms of visuals and efficiency), but honestly, I’ll miss her. She has been such a great manager to work with – extremely understanding, knowledgeable and always willing to share her knowledge with us. I really think it’s the company’s loss to lose such an employee like her, but I also know the management have their reasons doing so… and that LW also is contemplating of leaving the company too. She has been unhappy with the management (apparently this unhappiness goes both ways) and feels she’s not being appreciated (though she understands that we VAs appreciate her loads). She has continued to stick around because of us, and to be absolutely very frank, I think she probably felt somewhat relieved that she can leave this place sooner than expected. If this company doesn’t appreciate her, then she’s better off in some other company where her skillset is being valued. I really do miss her a lot, but… life goes on. Work goes on.

Karen has promised us that our work scope remains the same for now. Vanessa has promised us that we will not merge with Compliance for now (she knows we dislike CB and wouldn’t want her to be our lead). I’m not sure how this will go, but…. we’ll deal with the issues one step at a time, one day at a time. I’m sure we’ll be able to get through this.

It’s been quite mentally draining these few weeks. I don’t like to dwell on negative feelings, but can’t help feeling slightly down due to all the above issues – the unexpected exits of my FMs, my Mom’s constant nagging and dissuasion regarding my upcoming Japan trip… sigh. I’m sure I’ll be fine after awhile.

I’m back in contact with Miles (whom I stopped corresponding with last year). Because, well, he seems to be really sincere in maintaining the friendship… I wasn’t too keen to chat with him on WeChat (partly because I don’t think we have much common topics to chat about), so since I’m back on Slowly, may as well revert to communicating and keeping the friendship alive via letters again. It’s so extremely rare for me to meet an online penpal in person and to have met his Dad in person as well… so, I guess I should cherish this weird 缘分…