{"id":1414,"date":"2015-10-22T14:02:32","date_gmt":"2015-10-22T06:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/?p=1414"},"modified":"2015-10-22T14:02:32","modified_gmt":"2015-10-22T06:02:32","slug":"if-i-could-turn-back-the-clock","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/2015\/10\/22\/if-i-could-turn-back-the-clock\/","title":{"rendered":"If I could turn back the clock&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; I will still make the same decisions that I had made.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how I want my life to be &#8211; no regrets. Or at least, as minimal as possible.<\/p>\n<p>If it&#8217;s meant to be yours, it will be in the end. \u00a0If two people are meant to be together, they will be in the end, no matter what happens in between.<\/p>\n<p>In the event that we made mistakes, we learn from it and we move on &#8211; and of course, take care not to make the same mistake again.<\/p>\n<p>One thing I&#8217;ve learnt &#8211; always be who you are. \u00a0Never change yourself for someone. \u00a0Because soon enough you&#8217;ll find that it doesn&#8217;t work that way. \u00a0Never does, never will be.<\/p>\n<p>If the person cannot accept the bad side of the other party, then he\/she does not deserve the good side of that person. \u00a0You can&#8217;t have both worlds.<\/p>\n<p>Running away from the issue, or avoiding the issue when it happens, is not &#8220;accepting&#8221; it. \u00a0It&#8217;s just simply running away from it. \u00a0If you accept it, you won&#8217;t even run. \u00a0At least that&#8217;s how I see it.<\/p>\n<p>I guess I should feel lucky to have met at least one person in my lifetime who had accepted me, for being me. \u00a0He had never made me feel that I&#8217;m inadequate, he had never yelled at me or shouted at me for being me &#8211; tempers, bad moods and all. \u00a0Too bad I had to let him go.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day &#8211; no regrets. \u00a0No regrets for what I&#8217;ve done, no regrets for what I&#8217;m doing, and no regrets for what I&#8217;m going to do in the future.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how I would want it to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; I will still make the same decisions that I had made. That&#8217;s how I want my life to be &#8211; no regrets. Or at least, as minimal as possible. If it&#8217;s meant to be yours, it will be in the end. \u00a0If two people are meant to be together, they will be in the<span class=\"excerpt-ellipsis\">&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/2015\/10\/22\/if-i-could-turn-back-the-clock\/\" itemprop=\"url\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5BeXn-mO","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1414"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1414\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1415,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1414\/revisions\/1415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sanity-asylum.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}